The Emotionally Abusive Relationship
How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing
Chapter One
Emotional Abuse-The
Destroyer of Relationships
No matter what Tracey does, she just can't seem to please her boyfriend.
He complains constantly-about the way she dresses, the way
she talks, the amount of time she spends on the phone with her
friends-and even though she's taken his concerns to heart and made
changes in these areas, he always seems to find something else to
complain about. "I love him and I want him to be happy, but I'm confused,"
Tracey explained to me. "Sometimes it seems like no matter
what I do he never seems to be satisfied, and at other times I begin to
think that maybe I do things deliberately just to upset him."
Robert's wife isn't speaking to him again. This time it's been two
weeks. Although it's happened many times before, it still bothers him
immensely. "I feel like a bad boy who is being punished by his
mother. It's not just the silent treatment that bothers me, it's the dirty
looks, as well."
Over the years, Robert has learned to stay away from his wife and
give her time to cool down. "It doesn't do any good to try ... read full excerpt from: The Emotionally Abusive Relationship: How to Stop Being Abused and How to Stop Abusing ebook