HE JUST DOESN'T GET IT
SIMPLE SOLUTIONS TO THE MOST COMMON RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS
Excerpt
Chapter One
If he doesn't understand why you're reading this book (or "get" all the ways in which you try to strengthen your relationship)
Who cares? Okay, maybe you do care. Let's be honest; most of us wish our partner would acknowledge and appreciate our considerable efforts to improve the quality of our relationship. Wouldn't it be nice, for example, if your partner noticed that you're reading this book and did any or all of the following:
- ask why
- leaf through it
- leaf through it and comment on specific issues that apply to him
- borrow it to read when you're finished
- or, best of all, suggest that you read it together and talk about everything in it that relates to the two of you.
It's a lovely fantasy. But it probably won't materialize. Granted, it would be terrific if your partner was intrigued by and engaged in your ongoing efforts to improve your communication, deepen your intimacy, and handle thorny issues that arise. Unfortunately that's asking a lot. It's not because men are illiterate or ... read full excerpt from: He Just Doesn't Get It ebook