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Introduction There is no such thing as a "generic" Jewish wedding no matter what the rabbi tells you, no matter what your mother tells you, no matter what the caterer tells you.
The rabbis who codified Jewish law,
halakhah, made it so easy for couples to marry that the minimal requirements for carrying out a kosher Jewish wedding can be summed up in a few words: the bride accepts an object worth more than a dime from the groom, the groom recites a ritual formula of acquisition and consecration, and these two actions must be witnessed. That constitutes a Jewish wedding; the rest of the traditions associated with Jewish weddings the canopy, the seven wedding blessings, the breaking of a glass, even the presence of a rabbi are customs. Custom in Hebrew,
minhag changes over time and differs from one nation to the next. Some Jewish wedding customs have been discarded and forgotten, and some ...
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