Chapter One
The Tale of the Lady with the Feather Dress
If by chance you were to meet me at the Casablanca airport or on a boat sailing
from Tangiers, you would think me self-confident, but I am not. Even now, at my
age, I am frightened when crossing borders because I am afraid of failing to
understand strangers. "To travel is the best way to learn and empower yourself,"
said Yasmina, my grandmother, who was illiterate and lived in a harem, a
traditional household with locked gates that women were not supposed to open.
"You must focus on the strangers you meet and try to understand them. The more
you understand a stranger and the greater is your knowledge of yourself, the
more power you will have." For Yasmina, the harem was a prison, a place women
were forbidden to leave. So she glorified travel and regarded the oppor ... read full excerpt from Scheherazade Goes West: Different Cultures, Different Harems ebook