Silent Partner
Chapter One
First Encounter
When I think of all that happened during the eight years of my relationship with Jim
McGreevey, the beginning-how I met him, how I fell in love with him-is the hardest
story to tell, or at least to tell in the right way. When love goes out the door, courtship
stories may go into the attic, never to be told again. It's no fun to recount the birth of a
love that died a horrible death. My sadness and yes, my anger, cast long shadows and
obscure much that was hopeful and happy. But if I don't tell this story carefully, Jim will
look like someone you wouldn't trust to feed your cat over the weekend, much less
someone who was the repository of so much trust, public and private. And if that's the
man who emerges, what does that say about my judgment in marrying him?
Jim was devastated when his wife left him without any warning, and therefore he
came to doubt his ability to read the emotions of someone he loved. Ironically, he put me
in the same position, so that now, because I failed to read him, I've come to question my
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