XY is written for Men. Women should read this, too, but they likely freak out, start screaming their heads off, and will be far too defensive, without learning a single thing. They will get all unsettled and fight for their honor when it is not even at stake. XY is written for Men. Women should read this, too, but they likely freak out, start screaming their heads off, and will be far too defensive, without learning a single thing. They will get all unsettled and fight for their honor when it is not even at stake. Pretty Women overvalue their social worth so much that they feel that guys should pay for everything they want in exchange for their presence. Smart Women overvalue their brains so much that they feel guys should pay for them in exchange for their finally having a Female Friend that they can really talk to and learn from. Both types of Women, and all others, do things like massage a guy’s shoulders or feels his thigh(s) immediately after he spends money on her so that he will subconsciously associate spending money on her with a reward. Psychologists label this operant conditioning technique as "anchoring." In these days of diseases and genital nightmares guys don’t even want that “exchange” anymore. They’d rather go out with the boys, who split everything evenly, laugh at jokes, dance a little around the dance floor, check out pretty babes, then go home and name a pillow. Then the evening can end without his mind being cluttered with thoughts of how much money he spent, how much he’s going to have to work to replenish the well, wondering why she didn’t put out, and if she did; did he get any diseases? It’s all such a nightmare that it’s no wonder guys are narrowing their options and deciding on the fact that masturbation is safe, clean, and economical.